The Principles of Communication

The skills involved in leading and following center around   principles of communication. The best leaders are those who communicate their intentions, while the best followers are   those who respond well to the leader’s intentions. This is facilitated when both leader and follower do their part to maintain open lines of communication.

At some point or another, we’ve all been frustrated by a poor telephone connection. Nothing makes having a conversation more difficult or miserable than when you’re trying to talk   over static, pops, clicks, and other general interference resulting from a poor connection. It sure makes you appreciate   the times when you do have a clear signal!

The lead-and-follow process can be likened to a telephone   conversation: The better your connection, the easier it is to   have a conversation. So in the coming sections, we will explore some ways to improve your connection, so that you can lead and follow through “fiber optics”, rather than two tin cans and a string!

A connection is any physical point of contact between two partners in a dance position.

According to this definition, a connection can be any point where you actually touch your partner.   While this is technically correct, it’s not entirely accurate. Normally,  when we think of a connection, we think of a point through which you lead or follow your partner.   So it’s not enough to simply touch your partner or hold their hand. In order to lead or follow, your connections must do more. For example:

A connection must have TONE. In order to function properly as a transmitter of signals, the connected body parts should maintain a certain degree of muscle tone.  If the   connection is limp or weak, the lead-and-follow signals will not run through it.

A connection must be ACTIVE. A working connection is a living, breathing thing. It must be alive, responsive to the situation, and ready to transmit and receive signals. In   addition to being toned, it must also be flexible, and ready to change to accommodate any situation.

A connection must be MUTUAL. It takes two to have a conversation. Both parties must do their part to maintain the connection. When one person falls short, the conversation   dies, no matter how much the other may try to compensate.


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